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Abigail Reyes, Sexual wellness writer & product editor

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Abigail Reyes

Sexual wellness writer & product editor

Abigail researches, compares and explains pleasure products so you can shop with less guesswork and more confidence.

  • Body-safe materials
  • Beginner-friendly design
  • Lubricant chemistry
  • Couples communication
  • Accessibility & ergonomics
  • Inclusive product design

Abigail offers candid, judgment-free product guidance. Her writing is educational and isn't a substitute for personal advice from a qualified healthcare professional.

Abigail's top 10

The products she'd recommend first

Her highest-scoring reviewed picks across the catalog, ranked by design, performance, usability and value.

Black Womanizer Premium 2 clitoral stimulator with gold accent and control buttons on a white background.18.7/10

Womanizer

Womanizer Premium 2

Premium 2 suits anyone who wants adjustable air/suction stimulation, rechargeable convenience, and the freedom to use it in or out of the bath.

$189$226.80Read review
Polished stainless steel curved wand with tapered ends designed for targeted internal massage and pleasure.88.4/10

NJOY

nJoy Pure Wand

For shoppers who prefer deliberate, hands-on pressure over motors and menus, the Pure Wand remains a beautifully simple G-spot option.

$143$171.60Read review
Sleek black and white Lelo Mona Wave G-spot stimulator with ergonomic curved design and intuitive button controls.108.4/10

LELO

Lelo Mona Wave

Mona Wave suits shoppers who want substantial internal reach, familiar onboard controls and easy waterproof care in a premium silicone format.

$169$202.80Read review

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5 recommended products

Abigail's picks for Vibrators

Bullets, wands and internal vibrators for different bodies and kinds of sensation.

Purple ergonomic dual-stimulation vibrator with textured clitoral head and curved design for G-spot targeting.
Reviewed pick8.4/10

Snail Vibe Curve

Flexibility is the real luxury here: Snail Vibe Curve gives dual stimulation a more accommodating, adjustable shape.

Black Womanizer Premium 2 clitoral stimulator with gold accent and control buttons on a white background.
Reviewed pick8.7/10

Womanizer Premium 2

Premium 2 suits anyone who wants adjustable air/suction stimulation, rechargeable convenience, and the freedom to use it in or out of the bath.

$189$226.80Read full review

Behind the picks

How Abigail works

Abigail writes about intimacy, bodies and the products people actually keep in their bedside drawer. She begins with the questions shoppers are often left to untangle alone.

“Start with the facts, compare what matters in real use, and explain the trade-offs the way you'd explain them to a friend.”

She writes for beginners and long-time shoppers alike, and pays particular attention to products that work for different bodies, different abilities and different relationship shapes.

01

Start with the facts

Materials, measurements, controls, charging and warranty all come before the sales language.

02

Consider everyday use

Grip, fit, noise, cleaning and accessibility matter as much as power or a long feature list.

03

Make it personal

Every review says who a product may suit, where Abigail hesitates and who should choose something else.

Advice

Guides worth starting with

A metal tuning fork resting quietly inside layered wool felt beside rippling water

Product education

How to choose a quiet, discreet vibrator

A 'whisper-quiet' label doesn't tell me whether a housemate can hear it through the wall. Here's what I check instead—and what genuinely helps at home.

Jun 8, 2026 · 5 min read · Editorially reviewed

Two clear liquid samples showing the different textures of water-based and silicone lubricant

Lubricant education

Water-based vs. silicone lubricant, explained

One is the dependable all-rounder; the other stays gloriously slippery. Here's how they actually feel, what they're compatible with and when I use each.

Mar 9, 2026 · 5 min read · Editorially reviewed

Reviews

Reviewed and compared

A hand untangling plum thread as a visual metaphor for separating myths from facts

Reviews & comparisons

Common sex-toy myths, explained

No, a vibrator won't ruin your body or replace your partner. Let's untangle the claims I hear most often—and keep the useful cautions that get lost with them.

Aug 2, 2025 · 5 min read · Editorially reviewed

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