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How to choose the right lubricant for your toy

A short compatibility table you can actually remember.

Abigail Reyes

February 28, 2026 · 5 min read · Fact-checked

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The short version

Silicone toy: use water-based. Glass, steel or ABS: anything works. Latex condoms: water-based or silicone, never oil. Porous materials: water-based, and consider a condom over the product.

Sensitive skin

Look for glycerin-free, fragrance-free, paraben-free formulas with a shorter ingredient list. Patch-test on your inner arm if you react easily to new products.

Flavoured and warming formulas

Flavoured lubricants usually contain sweeteners, and warming formulas rely on ingredients that some people find irritating. They're fine for many people — just start small.

This article is educational and is not a substitute for individualised care from a qualified professional.

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